9. Dirty dishes
How often do you fight with your beloved because of dirty dishes? Could you imagine that a dirty cup might be a cause for divorce? Matthew didn’t believe it either. But his wife left him because he used to leave his cups by the sink. She thought it was a sign of indifference and her ex-husband says, “Every time she’d walk into the kitchen and find a drinking glass by the sink, she’d move incrementally closer to moving out and ending our marriage. I just didn’t know it yet.”